When you begin a divorce, even though you want to, you really can’t predict everything that’s going to happen. There’s no blueprint for separation - an attorney has protocols and legalities - but for the client, the person like you who’s life is starting to come apart, it’s hard to understand all of it. And not being properly informed, only concentrating on “how much is this going to cost me?” creates a ton of fear and anxiety!
So I created Divorce Unloaded™ to help clients become better equipped! Knowing what I know about divorce, I dig deep, getting to understand the person in front of me and teasing out what's up ahead. I share what I’m seeing and deliver a written assessment.
Turning worry and concern into a plan with a strategy - having a head's up on what to expect - having a sense of where to go - gives you direction and control.
A 12 - week class for determined souls ready to create a new life for themselves, their loved ones, and a happier future.
During this 3-month weekly group mentoring class you'll learn:
- how to develop down-to-earth faith in yourself and your abilities
- make loads of hope for the kind of future you want even when you’ve forgotten how.
- create steadfast courage to make it happen even when you’re unsure.
You’ll learn how to release the pain of your divorce and allow grace and gratitude to permeate your thoughts and actions.
Plus we'll hold each other accountable as you take steps to create the future, happily independent you!
Private, one-on-one coaching
My coaching is designed for those who need individual attention during a really rough time.
This is right for you if...
- You're going through separation and divorce (or trying to navigate the post-divorce world) and want a better, less-angry, more life-affirming way to go about it.
- You're courageous (or ready to become courageous), eager (or ready to become eager) and inclined to step into the world with more confidence and a lot less fear.
- You're willing to learn and you’re able to commit to (4)1-hour sessions weekly for 3-months
- You believe you can create the kind of life you want, even when you’re feeling fragile.
With private one-on-one coaching, the 3-hour Divorce Unloaded Session is included!
The Better Divorce to A Better Life - 12 Month Group Support & Mastermind
What I know for sure: going from being married to being happily single again isn’t easy.
You may feel you've got this. (Love that!) While simultaneously, you may not understand why you also feel stuck…
(Equally valid BTW!)
I maintain that this thing called divorce takes it’s toll primarily because you didn't go to divorce school while you were getting married.
It's really that simple.
We think it's about a legal fight and separation or learning how to get along while you co-parent if there are kids involved. We want to believe we know how to date and remarry after heartbreak.
All of that is true.
But it's not so simple.
Learning how to THRIVE after divorce is what I aim to teach.
- I want you to never be the same person you were before the courtship, the marriage, and the fight, whether you were an angel or not…
- I want you to shift, grow, process, and put this moment into the past, along with those other lessons that have helped you build character and wisdom.
- I truly believe there's a better way through this that limits the scar tissue.
- I believe there's a better way of doing this without having another divorce or losing a job or missing out on the connection with your children (especially that).
Ready to make a shift?
"You have absolutely clarified what I would like to get out of the coaching sessions. In fact, since speaking to you, I already feel a shift in my perspective on things.”